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16:41 - “To those who leave their homes in the cause of Allah, after suffering oppression, We will assuredly give a goodly home in this world: but truly the reward of the Hereafter will be greater. If they only knew!”

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

Love is blind / 1:35 AM

I find that I learn a lot about love these past few days from all different kinds of people. Here's another statement from a friend. "Kalau sudah sayang, ape yang kite lakukan semuenye atas dasar sayang" In english that means: "When we're in love, what ever we do with that person is in the name of love" I find that soo true. I mean some of us have been attached before, some not yet maybe but even if you have a crush, whatever you do you tend to base it on your love for that person. That feeling of love drives you to go around looking for the perfect birthday present every year. That same feeling also drives you to want to hold that person close to you and never let go. Yes people, love is a many wonderful thing. It can bring you down but still if your in love then all would seem well and that person means everything and if possible you would want to spend every minute with that person. So you'd find yourself trying hard to please that person because that feeling deep inside your heart is spreading across your body and is to great for you to deny.

My friend also went on and said: "Kite lakukan ini semue bukan setakat nak puaskan nafsu". (We do all this not mainly driven by our need to satisfy our personal pleasure). Which is kinda true also. If you're married then you can be almost certain that that is the case. Because no matter what you still can have sex. So if you feel unimaginably happy whenever your with your spouse and still able to have wonderful engaging sex then there's nothing wrong there. Because both of you love each other so much that you enjoy every moment together even when having sex. So thus such couples have sex not mainly because they need the pleasure but also because they love their spouse and would love to share that together. Of course I'm saying this in the eyes of a muslim who, by muslim law, cannot have sex before marriage. But even for people of other religions, the same thing applies. If you love that person so much you would still want to do it because you want to share that together. Of course personally I fill it a risk to have sex before marriage if you are not really sure how you feel about that person and vice versa but that's just me.

So what do you guys think? Do you agree with the statements I brought up? Express whatever you want on my tagboard but keep it short. For long replies, just post it on your own blog and leave me the link so I can just read it there.